The Soft Stuff Is the Hard Stuff – The Human Side Of Money Presented By Client Care

The Soft Stuff Is the Hard Stuff – The Human Side Of Money Presented By Client Care

A few weeks ago, we at Client Care hosted a breakfast with my good friend Dan Haylett, a financial planner from London. Dan and I share a passion for helping clients live a full and meaningful retirement. He has written a book on the subject and has just been commissioned by a major European publisher to write another. Our conversation centred on something we both believe needs far more airtime: the tough move from working to retiring, and from saving to spending.

After decades of diligent saving, many retirees find it remarkably hard to switch gears. Where we differ from many advisers is that we encourage our clients to spend their savings rather than hoard them out of fear of running out.

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Participation was wonderful, and the range of responses fascinated me, from a sense of helplessness to raw excitement.

Returning from a few weeks out of town, I chatted with some friends who had attended. One was blown away to hear two financial planners advocating spending, especially as a planner’s income is often linked to the assets we advise on. He had been nursing a little buyer’s remorse over a new car, but after the talk felt completely at peace with it, and even topped up the family holiday account for the children and grandchildren.

Another had recently skipped a family get-together at a wine farm, worried about what the day would cost him. He regrets it now, and says he won’t make that mistake again.

Then there was the wife of a client retiring in a few months. She came over with a smile and told me I had my work cut out shifting her husband out of the saving mindset, the very habit that has allowed them to retire so comfortably.

I’ll admit I was a little nervous building a talk around the soft stuff rather than markets and tax strategies. The response has shown me that the soft stuff is actually the hard stuff, and it’s what people most need to talk about. It is also the most rewarding part of what we do.

The Soft Stuff Is the Hard Stuff

To be clear, this isn’t about being cavalier. It’s about doing the maths first, understanding what you can spend and still be okay in the long run, and then giving yourself permission to spend within those guidelines. Money is a tool for living our best life by design, not something to hoard because we don’t know what’s possible.

If you’re unsure whether you have enough, pop in for a chat. Let’s erase those fears and make sure the one life you live is one worth living.

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Dirk Groeneveld, Certified Financial Planner

t. 083 261 9287

e. dirk@clientcare.co.za

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Diaz Road and Jeffreys Street in JBay Upgrade Completed

Diaz Road and Jeffreys Street in JBay Upgrade Completed

JEFFREYS BAY – Kouga Local Municipality has completed a R1.15 million infrastructure project aimed at improving pedestrian safety, accessibility and traffic calming along Diaz Road and at the intersection of Jeffrey Street and Schelde Street.

The completed project included the widening of the existing sidewalk along Diaz Road and the construction of a raised intersection at the corner of Jeffrey Street and Schelde Street.

The total contract value was R1 150,000, with R896 085.55 allocated to the Diaz Road sidewalk upgrade and R253 914.45 to the construction of the raised intersection.

Kouga Executive Mayor, Hattingh Bornman, said the completion of the project represents another practical investment in infrastructure that directly benefits residents and road users.

“We are pleased to see this project completed and delivering tangible benefits to the community. Infrastructure is ultimately about people – making our towns safer, more accessible and more functional for everyone,” said Bornman.

“The improved sidewalk provides pedestrians with a safer and more spacious route, while the raised intersection contributes to improved road safety and traffic calming. These are the kinds of projects that make a real difference in people’s daily lives.”

Improved pedestrian infrastructure

The Diaz Road sidewalk was widened by approximately three metres over a distance of 150 metres, significantly increasing the available pedestrian space.

The upgrade included the removal and replacement of approximately 150 metres of kerbing, with the new kerb line aligned to the widened sidewalk. G5-quality material was used behind the new kerb and compacted to the required specifications.

Approximately 250m² of existing paving was removed as part of the upgrade. The newly completed pedestrian area includes approximately 680m² of 50mm bevel-edge pavers and 150m² of 80mm interlocking pavers.

Four motor slopes were also constructed to provide smoother transitions between the roadway and sidewalk, with appropriate gradients and levels to support accessibility and drainage.

The upgraded area was further enhanced through the installation of benches and bollards, providing a more functional and pedestrian-friendly environment.

Safer intersection

The project also included the construction of a raised intersection at Jeffrey Street and Schelde Street.

The raised intersection is intended to encourage reduced vehicle speeds and improve visibility and safety at a point where pedestrians and motorists interact.

Bornman said road safety and accessibility remain important priorities for the municipality.

“Our communities need infrastructure that works for everyone – including pedestrians, motorists, children, older residents and people with mobility challenges. The completed upgrades improve the way people move through this area and create a safer environment for all road users,” he said.

The project also included the removal and responsible disposal of construction debris and surplus materials at an approved spoil location.

Bornman said the completion of the project forms part of Kouga Local Municipality’s ongoing investment in maintaining and improving infrastructure across its towns.

“We remain committed to ensuring that municipal investment translates into visible improvements on the ground. A wider sidewalk, safer crossing and improved intersection may seem like relatively small interventions, but together they contribute to a safer, more accessible and better-functioning community,” he said.

Kouga supports Pellsrus Primary’s environmental competition success

Kouga supports Pellsrus Primary’s environmental competition success

JEFFREYS BAY – Kouga Local Municipality congratulates the learners of Pellsrus Primary School in Jeffreys Bay on their outstanding achievement in the 2026 Department of Economic Development, Environmental Affairs and Tourism (DEDEAT) Environmental Competition.

The school secured first place at regional level, before going on to represent the Sarah Baartman Region at provincial level, where the learners achieved an impressive second position.

Green & Smart

Participating under the theme “A Green & Smart Generation for a Better Future,” the learners demonstrated their knowledge and understanding of environmental protection, conservation and current environmental challenges facing communities and the natural environment.

The school was represented by Enzokuhle Kamona, Lutho Sinam, Uviwe Zondani and Alicia Bangwayo, under the guidance and mentorship of their teacher, Mrs Domingo.

Kouga Local Municipality supported the school in its preparations for the competition, including assisting with the learners’ play, craft activities, and preparations, as well as accompanying the learners during the competition.

The municipality’s support forms part of its broader commitment to environmental awareness, education, and sustainable development, while encouraging young people to become active participants in creating cleaner, greener and healthier communities.

Spekboom Pot Plants

A highlight of the learners’ presentation was the gifting of Spekboom pot plants to members of the audience. The gesture highlighted their support for the Presidential One Billion Trees Programme, led by the Department of Forestry, Fisheries, and the Environment (DFFE), with Spekboom being recognised as the Tree of the Year.

Kouga Executive Mayor, Hattingh Bornman, congratulated the learners and their teacher on their achievement.

“We are immensely proud of these young environmental champions. Their achievement demonstrates the impact that environmental education and meaningful participation can have on our young people. We commend Pellsrus Primary School and its learners for representing Kouga and the Sarah Baartman Region with such enthusiasm and commitment. We hope their success will inspire more schools across Kouga to participate in environmental initiatives and help us build a greener and more sustainable future together.”

The municipality also expressed its appreciation to the educators and everyone who assisted the learners throughout their preparation and participation.

Ann Wright elected as the 11th President of Surfing South Africa, First Female President

Ann Wright elected as the 11th President of Surfing South Africa, First Female President

In an historic AGM held in Jeffreys Bay on Wednesday September 30th Ann Wright of Durban was elected as the first ever female President of Surfing South Africa.

Ann Wright has been a committed and energetic member of the Surfing South Africa Board for over 10 years. Prior to being elected as President, she was the first Vice President of the Federation.

Her election to this position underlines her 30 years of service to the sport and highlights the many roles she has played and continues to play in the growth of the organisation.

Rotary Club Of St Francis Donates Surf Gear To Sea Vista Children

Rotary Club Of St Francis Donates Surf Gear To Sea Vista Children

Sea Vista children learning to surf received a welcome boost this week. The Rotary Club of St Francis handed over donated surf gear at Main Beach in St Francis Bay.

The collection included more than 40 surfboards and wetsuits, generously donated by members of the community. Donors also contributed pre-loved bodyboards to support the children’s surf school.

Community Donations Support Young Surfers

The surf school is organised by the Wave Point Foundation in collaboration with the 9 Miles Project. It gives children from Sea Vista an opportunity to learn to surf and enjoy the ocean.

The children range in age from seven to 16. For many, access to equipment would otherwise limit their opportunity to take part.

However, the community’s response has helped put more equipment into the hands of these young surfers. A pre-loved board or wetsuit can still have plenty of useful life. Through this collection, that gear will now support children beginning their own surfing journey.

A Happy Handover At Main Beach

Rotary members met the surf school at Main Beach this week to hand over the donations. The children’s smiles reflected their excitement as they received the equipment.

The handover brought together the generosity of local donors and the work of the organisations running the surf school. Together, their contributions are helping more children experience the enjoyment of surfing.

Thanks To Donors And Collection Points

The Rotary Club extended heartfelt thanks to everyone who donated surfboards, wetsuits and bodyboards.

It also thanked Pam Golding, Seal Point Estates and the River Club for serving as collection points. Their support helped bring the donations together for the handover to the Sea Vista surf school.

Rotary Club Of St Francis Supports Sea Vista Youth Tennis

Rotary Club Of St Francis Supports Sea Vista Youth Tennis

The Rotary Club of St Francis has supported the Sea Vista youth tennis programme with equipment and clothing. The donation helps approximately 20 children enjoy regular tennis sessions while developing skills that extend beyond the court.

Hosted at the St Francis Tennis Club, the programme welcomes children aged eight to 17. They play twice a week in a safe, structured environment, with support from dedicated volunteers Stella Plantinga and Ninon Roos.

Building Confidence Through Tennis

For these young players, tennis offers more than an introduction to a sport. Each session provides an opportunity to build confidence, practise discipline and develop teamwork.

Furthermore, regular participation helps children strengthen their self-esteem as they learn new skills and recognise their progress. Having supportive adults alongside them also creates a sense of belonging.

For children with limited access to organised sport, these opportunities can make a meaningful difference. A regular afternoon activity gives them something positive to anticipate and a place to focus their energy.

Rotary Provides Equipment And Clothing

To support the Sea Vista youth tennis programme, Rotary supplied tennis rackets, balls and training equipment. In addition, the children received tennis shoes, T-shirts and caps.

Together, these donations help equip the participants for their twice-weekly sessions. Access to suitable equipment supports their involvement, allowing them to concentrate on learning and enjoying their time on court.

The contribution also supports the volunteers who give their time and energy to the programme.

Supporting Opportunities For Sea Vista Children

Stella and Ninon’s commitment gives young people a consistent space to participate, learn and grow. Meanwhile, Rotary’s support helps sustain the practical foundations of that work.

The programme brings together sport, encouragement and community support. Through these regular sessions, Sea Vista children have the chance to discover their abilities and carry that confidence into everyday life.

Newsflash from St Francis Property Owners NPC (SRA): Work On The Groynes Has Resumed

Newsflash from St Francis Property Owners NPC (SRA): Work On The Groynes Has Resumed

Newsflash from St Francis Property Owners NPC (SRA): Work On The Groynes Has Resumed

After a brief pause while supplies of large armour rock were being replenished, work on the groynes has resumed. The team is now focused on Groyne NG1 at Anne Avenue Beach. With approximately 20 metres remaining, we anticipate steady progress towards completion, subject to site and weather conditions.

A temporary ‘Round Head’ has been placed on Groyne NG3 at Peter Crescent to protect the structure until work resumes there. Construction will return to NG3 once NG1 is complete.

Stay Informed

Further details, updates and progress reports can be found on the St Francis Property Owners website under the NEWS header.

SFPO NPC Contact

Lyn Aitken – Administration Manager
Phone: 042 294 0594
Email: info@sfpo.co.za
Office address: 9 Philippa Place, St Francis Bay

Further Reading

Video: St Francis Bay Beach Restoration and the Groyne Project

St Francis Bay Surfers Shine At The 2026 Sea Harvest SA Junior Championships in Jeffreys Bay

St Francis Bay Surfers Shine At The 2026 Sea Harvest SA Junior Championships in Jeffreys Bay

(Photo Kody McGegor)
St Francis Bay surfers delivered standout results at the Sea Harvest SA Junior Surfing Championships in Jeffreys Bay. Slayde Shooter won the U14 Boys title, while Rory Dace finished second in U18 Boys. Brin Jarvis also claimed second in U14 Girls and earned the Highest Wave Score award across the girls’ divisions.

The 30th edition concluded in two-to-three-foot surf at Lower Point on Saturday, 3 October. Supported by the Department of Sport, Arts and Culture and Reef SA, the championships ran from 29 September to 3 October.

Over five days, competitors faced conditions ranging from warm weather and strong onshore winds to rain and contestable offshore surf.

Slayde Shooter Wins U14 Boys Gold

Slayde Shooter secured the South African U14 Boys title for Nelson Mandela Bay. His gold medal contributed to the team’s third-place finish overall.

Meanwhile, fellow St Francis Bay surfer Rory Dace finished runner-up in the U18 Boys division. Cape Town Surfriders’ Kai Stubbs claimed the title after taking the lead in the final seconds.

Brin Jarvis Claims Silver And Highest Wave Score

Brin Jarvis finished second in the U14 Girls division behind Ilembe’s Ella Van de Made. Van de Made added the U14 title to her 2025 U12 Girls crown.

Jarvis impressed the judges with her excellent backhand surfing at Lower Point throughout the contest. She also earned the award for the Highest Wave Score across the girls’ divisions.

Her Nelson Mandela Bay teammate, U12 Boys champion Judah Levendahl, received the corresponding award in the boys’ divisions.

Cape Town Surfriders Reclaim Freedom Cup

Cape Town Surfriders reclaimed the Freedom Cup from Buffalo City, winners in 2024 and 2025. Cape Town last held the trophy in 2023.

The Freedom Cup goes to the team accumulating the most points across all divisions.

Cape Town finished with 46,478 points, followed by Buffalo City with 41,894. Nelson Mandela Bay placed third with 39,917 points.

Ilembe finished fourth with 34,412 points, while Cape Winelands took fifth with 29,299. Ugu placed sixth with 29,281, Eden seventh with 28,621 and eThekwini eighth with 28,453.

Eight South African Junior Champions Crowned

Cape Town and Ilembe each claimed three individual national titles. Nelson Mandela Bay produced two champions.

Alongside Kai Stubbs, Cape Town teammate Emily Jenkinson won the U18 Girls title. The 2025 U16 champion also secured victory with a wave in the final seconds.

Cape Town’s Ben Esterhuyse won U16 Boys, while Ilembe’s Lila Aszalos claimed U16 Girls. Ella Van de Made won U14 Girls, and Slayde Shooter took U14 Boys.

In the youngest divisions, Lexi Lockhart became Ilembe’s third champion by winning U12 Girls. Judah Levendahl claimed the U12 Boys title for Nelson Mandela Bay.

Special Awards And A Decade Of Support

U18 bronze medallist Tyson Johnson of Buffalo City was named Surfer of the Contest. Buffalo City also won the Loud and Proud Spirit Trophy for team spirit and teamwork throughout the championships.

More than 170 girls and boys from eight districts competed in 120 heats over five days.

The event marked 30 years since the first championships in Durban in 1996. It also celebrated ten years of support from Sea Harvest, South African junior surfing’s longest-running sponsor.

View the full results on Surfing South Africa’s LiveHeats page.

Opening Young Minds to New Possibilities – Sea Vista Soccer and Surfing Youth Programs

Opening Young Minds to New Possibilities – Sea Vista Soccer and Surfing Youth Programs

Sport may be what brings them together, but for two Sea Vista youth programmes, the opportunities extend well beyond the soccer field and the waves.

With support from the Kromme Enviro-Trust, 20 young players from St Francis Bay Soccer and 11 youngsters from the local 9Miles Project surfing programme travelled to Gqeberha on 28 September. They enjoyed a day combining environmental education, sport and new experiences.

SANCCOB

Their first stop was SANCCOB at Cape Recife, where the group learnt about the critically endangered African penguin and some of the challenges facing our marine environment. The Kromme Enviro-Trust sponsored the visit as part of its commitment to encouraging environmental awareness and education among young people in our community.

The youngsters visited the penguin rehabilitation centre, met penguins that are unable to return to the wild and learnt about the impact of plastic pollution, overfishing and other threats to marine life. Importantly, the message was not simply about the problems facing our oceans, but about what individuals can do to make a difference. The youngsters were encouraged to reduce waste, reuse and recycle wherever possible.

NMB Stadium

After lunch – and, inevitably, an impromptu game of soccer – the group headed to Nelson Mandela Bay Stadium. For the young soccer players in particular, walking into a major stadium offered a chance to imagine where their own sporting ambitions might one day take them.

The outing was made possible through the support of several St Francis Bay organisations and businesses. Kromme Enviro-Trust sponsored the entrance fees to SANCCOB and the stadium, the Rotary Club of St Francis Bay sponsored the transport. Village Square SPAR provided food and refreshments for the group.

Special thanks go to Matt Davies of St Francis Bay Soccer and Showney Adams of the 9Miles Project. This for their dedication to creating opportunities for Sea Vista’s young people.

Days like these are about much more than an outing. They give young people an opportunity to experience something new, learn about the world beyond their immediate surroundings. Perhaps most importantly, imagine new possibilities for their own futures.

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Work Is Taking Place On The R330 – videos and images

Work Is Taking Place On The R330 – videos and images

To be honest, I haven’t been on the R330 for a few days – the last trip to Humansdorp in the dark was just too horrendous and I have been contemplating living the rest of my life in Cape St Francis without ever venturing past the Anchir Garden ever again.

However, it appears there has been real work done on the R330 in the last 48 hours.

Can anyone confirm?

Images from the Kouga Municipality Facebook page and Richard Arderne Facebook page. Not everyone will be able to view the Facebook videos (If you don’t have an account, they won’t load), but the images speak for themselves.

 

Read more: Kouga Municipality On-Site on the R330, and the Shocking State Of The Road

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